And this is the most personal blog post I’ll ever write. A few months ago, I went to Selva Val Gardena. I’ve been putting off writing about it ever since. The air was crisp and clean, and cold but not intolerable under good American winter gear. I napped to the sound of skiers swishing by my hotel window in the afternoons, and I ate loads of northern Italian food and drank goblets of hot chocolate. Additionally, I was walking on six feet of air, because I was with the man I’d been dating since practically the first day I arrived in Italy, and who had also been my friend for twelve years. Also present were some of his family members including a baby who I wanted to play with and smell, constantly. Β The four (five including the baby) of us laughed, consumed much food and beverage, hiked around in snow boots, and told stories. The fellow and I held hands and the baby and talked about the future.

And then we returned to his place at the end of the weekend and I asked if I could use his computer to send some work emails and he let me, and in an instant I discovered he was living a double triple quadruple quintuple life.

So, friends, Selva Val Gardena is a little poisoned for me, but it shouldn’t be for you. If you’re a skier or like your Italian food on the goulashy side, add Selva to your list of places to visit. Hopefully it will be a better weekend for you than it was for me.

I intend to write about everything I discover in Italy. That particular weekend I discovered Selva Val Gardena, and also something else a little more surprising. I am, in fact, very happy to have discovered both.

Oh, one more thing: he’s very, very concerned with what his friends will think if they find out, so he asked me not to say anything on Facebook, and I can only assume that request extends to this blog (although none of his friends reads it). So I will respect these wishes So I guess everyone will have to wait for the Rome If You Want To book.

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Get here from Milan, Verona, whatever, oof.

Get here from Milan, Verona, whatever, oof.

My hotel. Stay there if you go to Selva. It was nice, the owner was nice, the breakfast was nice. What more do you want out of life.

My hotel. Stay there if you go to Selva. It was nice, the owner was nice, the breakfast was nice. What more do you want out of life?

The view from my hotel room.

The view from my hotel room. Humbug.

The town.

The town.

Selva from the Ski Lift

Selva from the Ski Lift

Mountains, fresh air, I'm over it.

Mountains, fresh air, I’m over it.

I actually dozed off in one of these garden chairs.

I actually dozed off in one of these garden chairs, in my winter coat under a blanket. That was kinda special.

Genius.

Genius.